Here we are, at what we believe will be our final ruling in appeals court (but who knows with this case) in our fight to keep custody of our dog Stitch. We should be issued a preliminary ruling by 4pm today. If it is in our favor, all we have to do is show up tomorrow in court and happily accept. If it is not, we go to court with our attorney tomorrow to present oral arguments against the ruling. If we are ordered to turn Stitch over to the person who neglected and abandoned him years ago, we will fight.
We lost this case last year due to the Lost Property Statute, a law written 200 years ago, when even people were considered property. The judge who ruled against us referred repeatedly to Stitch as “it”, comparing Stitch to a bicycle. Our pets save lives, work alongside our police and military, visit sick children in hospitals, rehabilitate prisoners, guide the blind and disabled, benefit our health and longevity. They can not be left in hot cars, or abused, or used in fighting rings. Can you say the same about a bicycle? The Lost Property Statute of California is antiquated and must be overturned.
If we win tomorrow, not only do we get to keep Stitch in our happy home, ours will be a precedent-setting case which will show that pets are not property, they are sentient beings who deserve to be protected and loved. Our victory will be a step in the direction of compassion toward animals, which will benefit all pet owners.
But win or lose, through this long battle, I have gained more than I ever imagined. I have learned that the world is full of kind and gentle people who will reach out and help a total stranger. I have learned that I am much stronger than I knew. I have learned how to stand up for what I believe in. And I have learned to have faith.
Although I struggle with my faith, I do pray. Years ago, during a particularly dark time, I prayed and prayed for God to restore my faith in humanity. I believe Stitch was sent to us to show us how good people can be. Because of him, we have been flooded with compassion from all corners of the globe. How rare a gift we have been given. I do not take it for granted. Through all of the heartache, grief and expense, I consider Stitch an answered prayer.
In many ways, we have already won. We’ve been fortunate to work with our attorneys Jill Ryther and Shannon Keith, two of the world’s biggest animal advocates and finest people. We’ve met so many wonderful animal-loving folks. We’ve made new friends all over the globe. And most importantly, we have had the joy of sharing our lives with Stitch for the past three years. In every way we have been enriched by this long and crazy journey.
In these last few hours, I can only ask, if you are a praying person, that you pray the honorable judges of LA Superior court -Patti Jo McKay and Gregory Keosian- are guided by compassion as they make their final decision. Pray for Stitchy, that he is forever in his safe and loving home. If you aren’t a praying person, that’s okay, too. Just think good thoughts and believe in the best outcome.
I will update you all the MOMENT I have any news.
We want to thank the Los Angeles Times for getting behind us (will post the story when it runs) and Robin Sax at Fox 11 News for reaching out and supporting. Also the good people at the Ellen Show for contributing to the Save Stitch legal defense fund.
But above all we want to thank all of you, friends, family and strangers alike, for your words of support, your encouragement, your donations and your help. Thank you for sticking with us on this long journey. We never would have made it without you.
Keep the faith! Save Stitchy!

UPDATE 4:45 pm Wednesday:
FRUSTRATING COURT SYSTEM! The Superior court just filed their preliminary ruling. They are upholding the lower court ruling ( meaning we LOST) due to a technicality in paperwork  (the fact that there is no court reporter record, because in lower jurisdiction hearings- there is no court reporter!)

They refuse to hear our case tomorrow. BUT- now our attorney is going to file a writ to the higher court- the Federal Appeals Court. We are taking this fight to the top! We are not giving up!

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  1. Anonymous

    I have been following your daily struggle with trying to save Stitch. I have prayed and prayed for you all. Please know i will continue to pray and will include the judge whom i hope will realize what a loving home Stitch is in. There are so many in this world who are behind you 100%. Thank you so much for keeping us updated on your progress. Sending thoughts and prayers your way. My little Ivan (my yorkie) is also hoping Stitch will be able to call your home his forever home. God Bless.

  2. Anonymous

    I also have been following your story and have shared it on my FB as well as my two Frenchie's page. A lot of people here in PA are sending out prayers for Stitch and your happy and loving family. Keep the faith. Faith sent Stitch to you because he needed love and you also needed some faith. You have a wonderful family and Stitch just seems to complete the circle of love in your home. Sending prayers and Winston and Friso have their paws crossed. God Bless.

  3. Liz Kinnon

    Your story with Stitch has been in my heart since I first found out about it through Troy. Your court dates were entered into my calendar as they approached and passed. My friends all know the story, too.

    I am sending the strongest of positive thoughts for your family today and anxiously await the news. I can also be in the courtroom tomorrow if it would be of any help. It would be an honor.

    Liz Kinnon

    P.S. My doggies say, "Amen to that!"

  4. Hollye Dexter

    Thank you so much! Love to you and little Ivan.

  5. Hollye Dexter

    Hooray for PA! Thanks for being part of the circle of love- Winston and Frisco, too!

  6. Hollye Dexter

    thank you so much for your support- and believe me, we feel it. Troy told me what a big supporter you've been. I will be posting when we get our preliminary ruling later today, and if it's bad, having people there tomorrow would be GREAT. The court needs to see that this issue matters greatly to the public. The LA Times will be there, too, and it's good for them to take pics of a big crowd. So we'd be honored to have you there. (1:30pm 111 Hill St, LA Superior court.)
    Thank you Liz. hope to meet you!

  7. Anonymous


    You inspire us. Thank you for sharing your story with everyone, you have given so many people and puppies a great faith in human kind.


    Jan and Gizzy

  8. matters that matter

    loving you and yours and praying for the outcome you all SO deserve.

  9. Julie

    Oh, honey. I can't believe it. I really can't. I'm so sorry and sitting her in disbelief.

    And yet I still think that ultimately justice WILL be served. I do.

    I know. I'm a damned cock-eyed optimist.

    But your love and heart and faith and goodness has to count for something.

    Stitch has to count for something.

    Sending love and strength and every positive thought I can…

  10. Anonymous

    Why not get HSUS to help, this is what they say they are good at, legal issues.

    Best of luck, you are grace under pressure.


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